1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 | I think that to everybody who believes like you're the reason like maybe—let's just say for example, this isn't an example from any of the marshmallows, this is just something that I pulled. Maybe there's an issue with a friend group. If there's an issue with a friend group and you feel like you may have caused a bit of a rift, it's not your fault. There are a lot of unspoken things that people don't talk about upfront. There's, like, how do you say it, a lot of baggage that everybody's dealing with. And if you're the one who talks about the baggage, you bring it up, that doesn't make you a bad person. If there's a problem that you have with someone or something, something that someone does, it doesn't make you a bad person to bring it up. It doesn't make you an [ __ ] because you have issues with somebody. Don't forget that you're your own person, and you have your own desires, and you have your own needs. If you don't feel comfortable where you are, then it is a part of your duty to try to put yourself in a more comfortable place. If you feel like a friend group isn't treating you right, then maybe it's okay to start new. You shouldn't feel obligated to stay in a place where you feel uncomfortable. 我想對所有認為是你錯的人說。比方說,這只是一個例子,這不是任何一個問題中的例子,這只是我隨便想到的。也許朋友群裡有問題。如果朋友群裡出現問題,而你覺得自己可能造成了一些裂痕,那不是你的錯。很多事情都是大家不願意直接說的。就像,怎麼說呢,大家都有很多心事。如果你是那個談論心事的人,你提起來,這並不意味著你是個壞人。如果你對某人或某事有問題,或者某人做了什麼事情,這並不意味著你提出來就是壞人。這並不意味著你有問題。不要忘記你是獨立的人,你有自己的願望和需求。如果你對目前的環境不舒服,那麼你的責任就是讓自己置身於更舒適的地方。如果你覺得朋友群對你不公平,那也許可以重新開始。你不應該感到有義務待在一個讓你不舒服的地方。 I feel like I'm talking out of my ass now. I sort of went on a tangent from the main core of the topic. To the people who think that everything is your fault, it's not. It's not your fault. Nothing is your fault. Well, that's not true. That was a bad way of saying it. Some things can be your fault, but not everything is your fault. You're not constantly the one who is causing issues in your life. There are very real situations of things that you can't just, like, you can't blame yourself for them, so don't blame yourself for them. I [ __ ] suck at this, don't I? (Maybe an encouragement stream was a bad idea, guys. I should just leave. Sorry, I'm taking this pipsqueak with me too.) 我感覺自己現在胡說八道了。有點偏離主題了。對那些覺得一切都是你錯的人來說,事實並非如此。這不是你的錯。沒有什麼是你的錯。好吧,這不完全正確。這樣說不太好。有些事情可能是你的錯,但不是所有事情都是你的錯。你並不是總是生活中問題的根源。有很多事情,你不能怪自己,所以也不要怪自己。(我這樣說是不是很爛?也許鼓勵直播不是一個好主意,我應該走了,抱歉,我要帶走這個小傢伙。) But that's where you're wrong. You shouldn't show doubt even in the face of doubt itself. Even if you feel like you're doing a bad job, keep trying. This goes to the next point that I want to talk about. There are a lot of people who don't feel like they do a really good job at what they're doing. They feel like there are other people who do it a lot better than they do. Guess who also suffers from that? I'll give you one guess. If you're constantly surrounded by people who do something very well, you're going to end up feeling like what you're doing is pointless. You're going to feel like what you do doesn't matter because there are plenty of other people in the world who can do it better than you. 但你錯了。即使面對懷疑,你也不應該表現出懷疑。即使你覺得自己做得不好,也要繼續努力。這引出我想談的下一個話題。有很多人覺得自己做得不夠好。他們覺得其他人比他們做得更好。你知道誰也有這種感受嗎?我給你一個提示。如果你總是被做得很好的人包圍,你最終會覺得自己做的事情毫無意義。你會覺得自己的努力無足輕重,因為世界上有很多人比你更擅長這件事。 And what if I told you guys that me streaming here isn't important because there are so many other creative YouTubers out there that do a better job than me? What would you guys tell me? I think even without typing it, you guys would all probably agree that there isn't any other you. Exactly. It's the same way I feel insecure sometimes about the things that I do. Some of you guys probably feel the same way. I saw some people talking about it in the marshmallows. I saw some people talking about the fact that their creative endeavors are suffering because there are other people that are better than them, maybe at their job. There are other people who do a better job than them, and it's normal to feel like there are other people better than you. You're allowed to think that. That feels bad, but it's not supposed to stop you. It's really hard to, but you have to use those sorts of moments to motivate yourself. You can be a better person too. You can be better at what you do, and I know that you guys can be better at what you do because I've seen it happen. I've seen people throughout my entire life getting better at everything they do slowly and surely. Some people grow at different paces. Not everyone has the same journey. 如果我告訴你們,我在這裡直播不重要,因為有太多創意十足的 YouTuber 比我做得更好,你們會怎麼想?我想即使不打字,你們可能都會同意,沒有其他人能取代你。對,我有時也對自己的事情感到不安,你們中的一些人可能也有同感。我在 marshmallows 中看到一些人在談論這個問題。我看到一些人說他們的創作因為別人比他們更好而受到影響,可能是在工作中,其他人比他們做得更好。感覺別人比自己更優秀是很正常的。你可以這樣想。這種感覺雖然不好,但它不應該阻止你。這確實很困難,但你必須利用這些時刻來激勵自己。你也可以成為更好的人。你可以在自己的領域更出色,我知道你們可以做到,因為我見過有人做到。我看到人們在整個人生中,慢慢地不斷進步。有些人以不同的速度成長。不是每個人的旅程都一樣。 If we all were the same, if we all were in the same book and we all had the same plot, then we'd all come out the same way. But the difference is that we all have our own books that we're in. We've all got our own stories. They've all got different twists and turns too. There's also character progression in stories like those, and the best part about stories like that is that the character can overcome the issues that they have to deal with, whether it be a big bad Demon Lord or maybe a big bad boss at work. At the end of the day, it's your story, and it's up to you to see the end of it. 如果我們都一樣,如果我們都在同一本書裡,有著相同的劇情,那麼我們都會以相同的方式結束。但不同的是,我們都有自己的書。我們都有自己的故事。他們都有不同的曲折。這樣的故事中還有角色的成長,而這樣故事中最棒的部分是角色能克服面對的問題,無論是強大的惡魔領主,還是工作中的大壞蛋。最終,這是你的故事,你決定它的結局。 I want to see some character progression in all of you guys. I want to see you guys evolve. I want to see some pipsqueaks that get bigger wings. Maybe your feathers change color or something like that. You know, you guys are still learning. Everyone's always still learning something. We're always still learning. I think there's a lot of people out there that think at a certain age you've got things figured out. Um, news flash, you never have things figured out. You might have some things figured out, but you never have it all figured out. You are always constantly learning. There are just people that learned it sooner than you, but you've also learned other things sooner than other people, and it's a little hard sometimes to take that into account that there are things that you're really good at too. It's hard to self-reflect, though, but that's why it's important to surround yourself with good people. And that's why I'm going to double down and say if you don't think that you're surrounded by good people, if you don't feel comfortable where you are, then it's okay to invite some change into your life. Change is how we get better. 我希望看到你們所有人都在成長。我想看到你們進化。我想看到小傢伙們長出更大的翅膀。也許你的羽毛會改變顏色。你知道的,你們還在學習。我們永遠都在學習。我認為有很多人認為到了某個年齡就能把事情看透。嗯,事實是,你永遠無法看透一切。你可能看透了一些事情,但你永遠不會看透所有事情。你一直在學習。只是有人比你早學到一些事情,但你也比別人早學到一些事情。有時候很難意識到這一點,你也有很擅長的事情。自省很難,但這就是為什麼要圍繞在好人身邊。這就是為什麼我要重申,如果你不認為你被好人包圍,如果你不感到舒適,那麼可以考慮改變。改變讓我們變得更好。 |
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